I want to share something with you that’s raw, beautiful and
I got engaged to Gia about 4 years ago. Right after that we
both visited my parents in New Jersey to tell them the good
news. We were already starting to plan the wedding and
were totally excited by it.
Then all of our plans were abruptly halted.
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer.
As you can imagine, I no longer felt excited about my
wedding, my ceremony or having any sort of celebration. My
mom was sick and all I wanted was for her to get better. It
At the same time, Gia didn’t want to wait to get married.
So we decided that it was best to simply go to City Hall to
make it official.
But it never felt right. Without a ceremony and without
our family and friends with us, our marriage never felt
official in our hearts.
So when my mom got better, we decided that it was time to
plan a real wedding.
In my mind, I thought it was going to be just an awesome,
touching and beautiful party.
In my mind, I thought I was doing it more for Gia than for
In my mind, things wouldn’t really be different after our
I was wrong.
The ceremony was magical. As we were encircled by our
closest family and friends, I felt my whole community
lifting me up to be a better man, a better husband, and a
It wasn’t just for Gia, this was for ME. And I have been
My level of commitment to myself is more consistent.
My level of commitment to Gia is as solid as I can imagine.
There is now no backdoor. I am here. I am staying. I am
I know that commitment is the backbone of success. And
everyday I am with Gia, my commitment to her is growing and
my relating to her is getting richer, better and more
Why I am sharing this with you?
Yes, I want you to know me better.
I also know that in order for you to create the life you
want and the business you want, it is your level of
commitment that needs to grow and deepen first and foremost.
What if there were no backdoor to slip out through in your
business success journey?
What if you were so deeply married to your business and to
your life’s work that you were going to make it work no
Your life would forever be transformed.
You would be a different being.
You would learn to love in a completely different way.
I love you and want this for you as much as I want ANYTHING
in my life.
P.S. I’d love for you to let me know what you think of this
post and the pictures